{Bringing Up Boogie} The Longing: A Single Mom Searches For Magic In the Darkness

By BASSEY IKPI So this sadness returns quietly. Always quietly. No great trumpeting or horn blast. No drum circle or full bodied gospel wail. No...

– Mar 28, 2011

{Bringing Up Boogie} The Place From Which A Mother’s Love Flows

By Bassey Ikpi I love my son. That seems like a really base thing to say. Mothers are supposed to love their children. If you...

– Mar 14, 2011

{Bringing Up Boogie} Ready or Not? Deciding When and Where My Black Boy Goes to Kindergarten

By Bassey Ikpi This afternoon, my father handed me a brochure for St. Mathias Catholic School. It's that time. Boogie will turn 5 next November...

– Feb 5, 2011

{Bringing Up Boogie} Single Mom Dating Is Confusing And Kinda Sucks Ass

I've been single since before Boogie was born. I was not with his father while I was pregnant or any time after that. I've dated...

– Jan 10, 2011

{Bringing Up Boogie} Holy Batman and the Big Boy Bed: My Baby Is Growing Up

Bassey and Baby Boogie Boogie turned four on November 30th. We had a superhero party for him because he's obsessed with Batman and Superman. Or...

– Dec 13, 2010

{Bringing Up Boogie} There Is No Comfort In Silence

Editor’s note: If you follow poet and Bringing Up Boogie columnist Bassey Ikpi here on MyBrownBaby, you know that she is a tireless advocate for...

– Dec 6, 2010

{Bringing Up Boogie} For Black Moms Whove Considered the Cuss Out When the Playground Banter Is Too Much

Editor's Note: I dug deep into the MyBrownBaby Crates for this piece, which I gathered together one Sunday afternoon while I was fussing around on...

– Nov 22, 2010

{Bringing Up Boogie} My Boy and the White Barbie Cozying Up Under the Christmas Tree

By BASSEY IKPI Boogie is in that can you buy me that? stage of life. I dread commercials with anything that races, flies, explodes or...

– Nov 8, 2010

{Bringing up Boogie} For Colored Girls Who Are Pregnant, Alone & Unable to See the Rainbow

By BASSEY IKPI The doctor says I've lost weight in the last two weeks. The doctor says that the growth is even bigger now than...

– Nov 1, 2010

{Bringing Up Boogie} Down With The Fresh Beat Band and Other Kid Shows That Aren't Fresh

The Fresh Beat Band stars Twist, Kiki, Shout, and Marina, a.k.a. Boogie’s homies By BASSEY IKPIAfter last week's mommy melt down, I've decided to relax...

– Oct 25, 2010
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